
Exploring mate selection reveals the complex interplay of physical traits and health indicators that influence attraction. From body shape to dental aesthetics, various factors play a crucial role in how individuals assess potential partners. Programs like Naked Attraction highlight these dynamics, prompting discussions about the significance of appearance and underlying health cues in human relationships.
In This Article
- What challenges arise in mate selection?
- What mechanisms influence physical attraction?
- How does body shape impact perceived desirability?
- What practical applications can be derived from attraction science?
- What are the risks associated with physical modifications?
The selection and attraction of a suitable mate is of fundamental importance to all species. It is perhaps not surprising then that dating programmes, featuring men and women competing for the attentions of a potential partner, are so popular. Indeed, viewers have tuned in to series such as Blind Date, Take Me Out and The Bachelor for decades.
But recently Channel 4 took the format a “bold” step further, launching a new dating programme, Naked Attraction, which features men and women selecting from a range of potential suitors, each of whom appear on the programme – entirely naked. First, the lower body is revealed, next the torso, then the face, and finally the voice. At each stage, the contestant discusses the traits they are attending to and their attractiveness, before eliminating one of the available suitors.
A range of physical features are discussed including body shape, genital size, body hair, hair style, teeth quality, and the presence of tattoos. Though this form of dating is not (I presume) one with which most of us are familiar, the importance placed on appearance, and the information we obtain from appearance (whether consciously or unconsciously) is something to which we can all relate. Indeed, these characteristics can provide important information which allows us to select only high quality healthy partners.
Here’s some of the science behind how we pick a potential mate.
Body Shape
Body shape is one of the most widely discussed aspects of physical attractiveness. Our ideas of the ideal body shape are often wrongly manipulated by the media, advertising or the fashion industry. But certain physical traits can reveal deeper physiological truths.
Prior to puberty, for example, girls and boys display a similar waist-to-hip ratio. But at puberty, oestrogen and testosterone stimulate in women the accumulation of fat in sex-specific areas. Therefore, women typically display a waist-to-hip ratio of about 0.67-0.80 – although these ratios increase further after childbirth and menopause.
Waist-to-hip ratio is also associated with a range of health conditions in women, such as cardiovascular disease and breast cancer, and can also be an indicator of the likelihood of conception. Hence women with higher waist-to-hip ratios display poorer health and are less likely to conceive. Consequently, waist-to-hip ratio provides important information about a woman’s age and reproductive status.
It is important to note of course that levels of body fat (body mass index) also influence ratings of physical attractiveness and perceived health, though waist-to-hip ratio and body mass index may signal different information. In particular, body mass index may reveal the ability to endure energy intensive pregnancy and breast feeding, while waist-to-hip ratio indicates youth and fertility.
With regards to male body shape, research often focuses on the importance of height. Indeed, although the preference for a “tall, dark, handsome stranger” is a cliche, there is a biological basis for this preference, with only healthy high quality men able to invest the physical resources required to develop tall stature. Hence, height is associated with positive physical and mental health.
It is also related to important social outcomes such as social status, educational success, and income, which may reflect perceptions that tall men are more assertive and dominant than shorter men. Consequently, research suggests that tall men are more desirable to women and are themselves able to attract more attractive partners.
Teeth
When assessing the physical attractiveness of potential partners, people often comment on the colour or shape of teeth. The colour and shape of our teeth is not of course arbitrary and can reveal important information about our health and genetic quality. For example, tooth loss is associated with poor general health, nutritional deficits, and conditions such as cardiovascular disease and stroke.
Teeth spacing may also indicate the presence of specific genetic disorders such as Rapp-Hodgkin Syndrome and Robinow’s Syndrome00470-2/abstract), while tooth colour is influenced by a range of factors including diet and age, leading to teeth appearing darker and yellower as we get older.
As a consequence, people place considerable importance on the appearance of their teeth and in the US alone, about US$1 billion per year is spent on purely cosmetic dental procedures. A 2012 study suggested the manner in which teeth colour and spacing influence ratings of physical attractiveness, concluding that deviations from normal spacing and/or darker yellower teeth are perceived as unattractive, particularly when judging women.
Body Modification
People also often seek to alter and enhance their appearance through the use of cosmetics, hair dye, and jewellery. More permanent modification through the use of tattoos is also common though these are associated with a range of health risks. These include allergic reactions to tattoo colours, bacterial infections, and the transmission of blood borne diseases such as HIV.
As the ability to obtain and maintain a tattoo without an adverse reaction may be dependent on physical fitness and immunocompetence, the presence of a tattoo (that has not resulted in the aforementioned difficulties) can act as a signal of physical quality. Men may be most likely to display tattoos as a cue to physical health; tattoos are most common among men aged 25-34, and men are more likely than women to acquire multiple tattoos that cannot be concealed by clothing. Hence, women rate men with tattoos as healthier than those without.
Of course, while we attend to a range of physical traits when evaluating potential partners, it is important to note that the importance we place on any single trait varies across time and context, such as when assessing partners for short-term casual or long-term committed relationships, and between individuals. Additional research is however to required to establish the relative importance of each feature and the manner in which people may dishonestly signal their true quality and intentions. And apart from that, let’s not overlook the importance of a good sense of humour. Looks aren’t everything.
About The Author
Gayle Brewer, Senior Lecturer, School of Psychology, University of Central Lancashire
This article was originally published on The Conversation. Read the original article.
Further Reading
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The Evolution of Desire: Strategies of Human Mating
David Buss drew on one of the largest cross-cultural studies of human mating ever conducted to map the hidden logic behind our partner preferences. The research cuts through romantic mythology to reveal why certain physical and social traits consistently attract us across vastly different cultures and time periods. For readers intrigued by what the science of body shape, height, and health signals says about our deepest instincts, this is the foundational text.
Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0465097766/innerselfcom
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Survival of the Prettiest: The Science of Beauty
Harvard psychologist Nancy Etcoff makes a compelling case that our responses to physical beauty are not manufactured by fashion magazines or advertising — they are hardwired into us by millions of years of evolution. Her work directly illuminates why we read health, fertility, and genetic quality from features like teeth condition, body symmetry, and skin tone, often without conscious awareness. It is an essential companion to understanding why appearance carries such weight in the mating process.
Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0385479425/innerselfcom
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The Mating Mind: How Sexual Choice Shaped the Evolution of Human Nature
Geoffrey Miller takes Darwin's long-neglected theory of sexual selection and uses it to explain not just physical attractiveness but the full range of human creativity, humor, and intelligence. His argument that many of our most distinctly human qualities evolved as courtship displays adds a surprising dimension to the discussion of what we are really assessing when we evaluate a potential partner. The book reframes everything from tattoos to wit as part of an ancient signaling system we are still running today.
Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/038549517X/innerselfcom
Article Recap
Understanding the science of attraction can enhance insights into mate selection processes. Caution is advised regarding the superficial judgments based solely on appearance, as deeper qualities also play a vital role in relationships.
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